♥️HEARTS♥️
♥️Ace: home or close environment. Could represent a visit, travel or a change of address.
♥️King: an influencial man, someone who has the power or ability to do something good for the querent. Money, wealth, success in love.
♥️Queen: A trusted woman. Someone knowledgeable and faithful. One who always plays fair. Trust, honesty, friendship.
♥️Jack: A good friend to the querent, someone close, a cousin or confidant, someone they have known for a long time. Friendship, relationships (usually family-related), and gathering or celebration.
♥️10: A good card: means good luck, can counteract bad cards around it.
♥️9: Harmony, prosperity. Also known as ‘the Wish Card’. If surrounded by bad cards, these can represent obstacles that need to be dealt with in order to get the fulfillment of the wish.
♥️8: An event, a celebration, a party/wedding ..etc. Some sort of ceremony that is already in the works, or is being planned.
♥️7: A card of disappointent. Usually indicates a partner or other person failing to keep their promises. If this card comes up when dealing with some sort of plan, expect that the other person will back out.
♥️6: Warning card. Someone may try to take advantage of the querent. Also, the querent is being used by a close friend or partner.
♥️5: Indecisiveness: The querent’s inability to make up his/her mind on a subject. A tendency to make and break plans with others.
♥️4: The bachelor/old maid card. This card represent someone who is too fussy in their selection of a partner. Someone who, by their picky nature, is destined to remain alone.
♥️3: An unwise decision, made in haste and without proper background information.
♥️2: Success, often beyond the querent’s expectations. If bad cards surround, there may be delays in reaching the goal.
♣️CLUBS♣️
♣️Ace: Indicates wealth, fame, and having many friends or acquaintances. Also feeling well known and being able to receive certain perks due to good looks or social status.
♣️King: Represents a very good friend. A lifelong companion, someone who can be trusted and counted on during times of need and sorrow.
♣️Queen: Represents a wife or girlfriend in long term relationship for a man. For a woman, represents a sister or good friend, someone who shares a lot of knowledge about the querent.
♣️Jack: Represents a good friend, one who uses a lot of flattery, but only to make the other person feel better. Someone who is good at cheering the querent up.
♣️10 :A card of happiness and good fortune. Can also represent a long and fun-filled journey.
♣️9: Trouble: Represents arguments with good friends. A loss of a relationship, a dispute that will remain unresolved.
♣️8: A sense of desperation. An urgent need for money.
♣️7: A card of good luck, if other favorable cards are around. Success if there is not interference from the opposite sex.
♣️6: A partnership card. Success based on mutual goals and friendship.
♣️5: A marriage card, or the beginning of a long standing alliance.
♣️4: A danger card, showing misfortune or failure. Supposed friends getting in the way, or turning against the querent.
♣️3: A sign of a second marriage or even a third. Or an engagement with someone, then a marriage with another, after a friendly separation.
♣️2: Bad luck. Being let down by those around. Opposition from friends and family. Do not count on others.
♦️DIAMONDS♦️
♦️Ace: an important message. A letter or package/gift arriving, the contents of which are very important.
♦️King: A bitter rival, a dangerous competitor, for women it can mean an abusive man or a deceitful lover.
♦️Queen: A flirtatious woman, one who will interfere in plans. Gossipy, very attractive to males..able to get away with things and interfere in situations.
♦️Jack: A bringer of bad news. A selfish person. Not dangerous to male querents, but problems for a female one.
♦️10: Money. Money being the driving force of a journey or partnership. Greed.
♦️9: Adventure: A move in the hopes of advancement.
♦️8: Country life, travel and marriage late in life. The querent’s life is too hectic at the moment..a need to settle down and get away..but being unable to do so at the present time.
♦️7: Bad luck on an enterprise or idea. A man who is unreliable, a gambler or drinker.
♦️6: An early marriage, but an unhappy one..and one not destined to last. A second marriage would also be unhappy.
♦️5: Prosperity, long enduring friendship. Pride in family. Success with children.
♦️4: Quarrels: Forgotten or neglected friends and family. Situations that have been brewing and now come to a head.
♦️3: A card of disputes and quarrels. Lawsuits, legal actions. A sign of separation or divorce.
♦️2: A serious love affair, resulting in a marriage or interfering with one depending on surrounding cards.
♠️SPADES♠️
♠️Ace: Bad news, loss of someone close, possible death to someone near, or an illness, miscarriage, etc.
♠️King: A man who will cause problems in marriage or relationships. One who will get in the middle, divide and conquer..and then destroy.
♠️Queen: A cruel woman, one who interferes. For women, a betrayal by a good friend. For men, a woman who will use them for their own gain.
♠️Jack: A person who hangs around and gets in the way. Not a bad person, but a lazy person. One who will get in the way of progress. Takes and takes, but does not give back anything.
♠️10: A very unlucky card. If near a good card, it can cancel it out. If found with bad cards, makes them twice as bad.
♠️9: The worst card of all: Illness, loss of money, or misery. Even among the best of cards. Defeat, lack of success:
♠️8: False friends, traitors, someone who will betray. Most of the trouble can be avoided if caught early on. Examine all relationships closely.
♠️7: Sorrow and quarrels. Avoid arguments with friends. Let them “win” for now.
♠️6: Much planning but little result. Hard work, without much profit. Discouragements.
♠️5: Success in business or love, after much time and hard work.
♠️4: Minor misfortune: A short illness, a temporary setback.
♠️3: Unhappiness: Misfortune in love or marriage. A loss of pride and hope. Do not dwell, move on in life.
♠️2: A complete and forced change. Sudden change of location, relationship or a death. Bound to make a big difference in the coming months.
GENERALLY: ♥️HEARTS: Emotional, symbols of pain and suffering.
♣️CLUBS: Friends, relationships.
♦️DIAMONDS: Difficulties, money problems.
♠️SPADES: Warnings.
-Leave shit at the gate (coins, cigarettes, eggs, flowers)
-If alone go in silence, if with others speak in a hushed tone
-Wear a hat or head covering to prevent possession or bringing home unwanted spirits.
-Bring bells and/or rattles to wake the dead if desired
-Smoking in the graveyard or carrying a flame is an easy way to get the attention of the dead at night.
-Bring a knife or object made of iron should things get hairy (always bring a knife). Canes are also excellent tools for working with the dead
-have a way of gathering occult materia without being noticed by people or spirits (invisibility charms work best)
-If you're bringing spirits home with you (intentionally), don't turn around until you're across the threshold of your home
-Upon leaving the cemetery, say a prayer for the dead and wild things that inhabitant there
-When home, spread white powder (flower, salt, ect...) at the door to keep unwanted spirits out. A colander over a key hole works too.
In a world full of instant gratification.. may we never lose sight of the natural cycles of life.. how the moon takes its time to be full or how the crops take their time to harvest..
May we slow down & just be present..
Reading tarot:
Identify major patterns in the spread (start by looking at groupings of card types, such as element, number, court, majors, general vibe or emotion of the cards; use these concepts as a jumping-off point to form your own pattern. What if a lot of cards have horses on them? etc.).
Use patterns to establish flow (low # cards to high # cards; groups of solitary elements; every court is paired with a major; where is the interplay?). If the patterns are boulders, how does the water of narrative flow through this river?
Use flow to link cards. (This group seems disconnected from that group. This card is an outlier; a break must happen somewhere. Energy slowly builds in this series of cards. There is a sudden shift in pattern, a big change must occur).
Use links between cards to determine which book or picture meanings apply. (This outlier card only links up if it means there was a break in the good event. I will choose meanings that relate to surprise and disappointment, and discard contradictory meanings).
At any point in the process, you can stop and call it a day.
Identify major patterns only: "Well I drew a shit ton of Pentacles cards so I'm going to say that your problem right now is that work is taking up all your time, but also you feel like everything is going super slow. Hope this helps."
Also identify flow: "Well I drew a shit ton of Court cards so I'm going to say that your problem right now is a ton of people all competing to have a say in your life, but at the end you have the Tower and the Sun, so I guess this situation is probably fated towards disaster and then a decent outcome."
Also link cards: "These three court cards face the Tower, but they are also all either Sword or Wand cards. In my practice, Swords and Wand cards are most associated with conflict. These three people, whoever they are, will cause the most conflict."
Also read book and picture meanings: "Out of these three problematic people, this person will try to control how many responsibilities are on your plate. They probably make you feel bad for not being responsible enough."
If you are getting low on energy, or do not have the focus to complete the entire spread, start with broad overview (pattern) and slowly narrow it to flow, then linking. Last of all, if you still have the time/energy, use book and picture meanings to add fine detail to the reading.
No point in adding fine detail to a rough block of wood.
First, shape the reading with broad strokes by finding patterns, and slowly add shape.
Only when you have the smooth, polished shape of your reading should you add the fine detail.
A tea spell for headaches. (Requested by anon)
Gather: Mint, chamomile, amethyst.
Make your chamomile and mint tea.
Charge your tea with the amethyst.
Stir it clockwise to bring peace/calming energy and counterclockwise to banish your headache.
Sit down with your tea.
Inhale the steam from the tea.
Visualize the steam cleansing you of your headache (and negative vibes/any other pain you have).
Collecting And Utilizing Magick Charms
My personal charm collection.
Magick charms are small, enchanted objects used for protection, luck, attraction, and spiritual power. Witches, shamans, and mystics have used charms for centuries to enhance spells, manifest intentions, and guard against negative forces. This comprehensive guide will help you collect, store, and use charms effectively in your witchcraft.
A magick charm is any object infused with energy or intention to create a desired effect. Unlike talismans (which attract energy) or amulets (which repel energy), charms can do both, depending on their purpose.
Uses of Magick Charms in Witchcraft:
• Protection – Shields against negative energy, hexes, and harm.
• Luck & Prosperity – Draws fortune, money, and success.
• Love & Attraction – Enhances self-love, relationships, and passion.
• Healing & Wellness – Promotes emotional, physical, and spiritual health.
• Psychic Abilities & Divination – Strengthens intuition, dreamwork, and spirit communication.
• Manifestation & Goal Achievement – Focuses energy on specific desires.
Magick charms can be found, crafted, or gifted. The key is choosing objects that resonate with your energy and intention.
Where to Find Charms:
• Nature – Stones, feathers, shells, acorns, bones, dried herbs.
• Thrift Shops & Antique Stores – Old jewelry, keys, trinkets, coins.
• Personal Objects – Lockets, rings, buttons, meaningful tokens.
• Handmade Charms – Sigil-carved wood, cloth pouches filled with herbs, inscribed coins.
• Cultural or Spiritual Items – Religious symbols, runes, lucky talismans.
Protection Symbols & Charms:
• Pentacle/Pentagram – A five-pointed star within a circle, symbolizing protection, balance, and the elements.
• Hamsa Hand – A hand-shaped amulet with an eye in the center, used to ward off the evil eye and negative energy.
• Ankh – An Egyptian symbol of life, protection, and divine energy.
• Eye of Horus (Wadjet) – Offers protection, health, and wisdom.
• Algiz (ᛉ) – A rune of protection and higher guidance.
• Triquetra – A three-interwoven loop symbol representing the triple goddess (maiden, mother, crone) and protection.
• Bindrunes – Custom symbols made from Norse runes for specific protective purposes.
• Hexagram (Seal of Solomon) – Used for divine wisdom and spiritual protection.
• Blackthorn (Saining Rod) – A charm in Celtic magic for warding off evil spirits.
Love & Attraction Charms:
• Heart Symbol – Represents love, passion, and emotional connection.
• Venus Symbol (♀) – Associated with love, beauty, and feminine energy.
• Claddagh Ring – An Irish symbol of love, loyalty, and friendship.
• Red String – A Kabbalistic charm for protection and attracting love.
• Rose Quartz – A stone of love, harmony, and emotional healing.
• Apple (Sacred Fruit) – Used in love spells and fertility rites.
Wealth & Prosperity Charms:
• Coin – Standard charm of wealth, success, and prosperity.
• Maneki-Neko (Lucky Cat) – A Japanese charm for attracting fortune and prosperity.
• Four-Leaf Clover – Brings luck, success, and good fortune.
• Fehu (ᚠ) – Manifests wealth, prosperity, and abundance.
• Cornucopia (Horn of Plenty) – A symbol of abundance and wealth.
• Chinese Coins (Tied with Red String) – A feng shui charm for prosperity.
• Citrine (Merchant’s Stone) – Attracts wealth and financial success.
• Elephant with Trunk Up – A charm for good luck and financial stability.
Power & Strength Symbols:
• Thor’s Hammer (Mjölnir) – A Norse symbol for protection and personal power.
• Dragon Symbol – Represents strength, wisdom, and magickal power.
• The Lion (Solar Power) – Represents courage, dominance, and royalty.
• Oak Leaf & Acorn – Strength, endurance, and longevity.
• Sowilo Rune (ᛋ) – Represents the sun’s power, success, and victory.
• Phoenix – A symbol of resilience, transformation, and rebirth.
Wisdom & Knowledge Symbols:
• Key – Unlocks new opportunities, wisdom, and secrets.
• Ouroboros (Serpent Eating Its Tail) – Represents infinite wisdom and cycles of renewal.
• The Owl – A symbol of wisdom, intuition, and the unknown.
• Merkaba (Star Tetrahedron) – Represents spiritual ascension and higher consciousness.
• Celtic Awen – Three rays representing divine inspiration, wisdom, and creativity.
• Feather – A symbol of knowledge, communication with spirits, and travel.
• Shell – Connection to water energy, emotions, intuition.
• The Labyrinth – A journey of self-discovery and enlightenment.
• Spider Web Charm – Symbolic of creativity, patience, weaving fate.
• The Book (Grimoire Symbol) – Represents arcane knowledge and magickal wisdom.
Healing & Health Symbols:
• Caduceus (Staff of Hermes) – Often confused with the Rod of Asclepius, it symbolizes healing and balance.
• Rod of Asclepius – A staff with a serpent, representing medicine and healing.
• Chalice/Grail – A symbol of spiritual nourishment and healing.
• Dove Symbol – Represents peace, purity, and emotional healing.
• Green Aventurine – A crystal associated with heart healing and vitality.
• Healing Hand (Reiki Symbol) – Used in energy healing practices.
Magick & Spiritual Symbols:
• Triple Moon (Waxing, Full, Waning) – Represents the triple goddess and the phases of magick.
• Yin-Yang – Balancing opposing energies, duality, and harmony.
• Infinity Symbol (∞) – Represents limitless potential and eternal cycles.
• Spiral (Sacred Geometry) – Represents cosmic forces, spiritual growth, and energy flow.
• Alchemical Symbols – Such as Sulfur (fire), Mercury (transformation), and Salt (earthly existence).
• The Sigil – A personal or created magical symbol for manifesting desires.
• The Triskelion (Triple Spiral) – A Celtic symbol of motion, progress, and spiritual evolution.
Death & Afterlife Symbols:
• The Scythe – Symbol of death, transformation, and the cycle of life.
• Anubis (Jackal-Headed Deity) – Egyptian guide of the dead and protector of souls.
• Raven & Crow – Messengers of the spirit world, associated with death and prophecy.
• The Skull – Represents mortality, spiritual protection, and wisdom.
• The Black Rose – A symbol of endings, transformation, and mourning.
Proper storage keeps charms energetically charged and ready for use. Here are some ideas for how to store your charms:
• Charm Bracelet – Wear daily for constant energy.
• Key Ring – Carry for protection, luck, or travel safety.
• Necklace or Amulet Pouch – Close to the heart for emotional or psychic work.
• Pocket Charm Bag – Small pouches with multiple charms inside.
• Altar Bowl or Plate – Keeps charms cleansed and charged.
• Wooden Box – A sacred space for unused or rotating charms.
• Glass Jars – Store charms by category (protection, love, luck).
• Hanging Charms – Over doorways, windows, or in cars for protection.
Once stored, activate your charms to align them with your energy and purpose. Here are some methods for charging charms:
• Full Moon Light – Best for charms related to psychic abilities, intuition, and love.
• Sunlight – Increases vitality, confidence, and empowerment.
• Fire Energy – Hold over a candle flame to strengthen power (use fire-safe materials).
• Earth Energy – Bury in soil or place on a crystal for grounding.
• Anointing Oils – Rub with essential oils that match the intention (e.g., rose oil for love, peppermint for clarity).
• Breath & Spoken Word – Whisper affirmations or spells into the charm.
Example Activation Spell:
"By earth, air, fire, and sea,
A charm of power this shall be.
Blessed with magic, strong and bright,
Guided by love, luck, and light."
Protection Magick:
• Wear as Jewelry – Carry protective charms like pentacles, hamsas, or evil eye symbols as rings, necklaces, or bracelets.
• Hang Above Doorways – Place charms like iron horseshoes, pentagrams, witch bells, or bindrunes on doors to keep negative energy away.
• Pocket or Pouch Carrying – Keep a small charm (such as a rune, hexagram, or protective sigil) in your pocket or mojo bag.
• Car Charm for Safe Travel – Hang protective symbols like an Eye of Horus, hag stone, or hamsa in your car.
• Candle Spell with Protective Symbols – Carve protective sigils or runes onto candles and burn them for shielding energy.
Love & Attraction Magick:
• Charm Bags for Love – Create a sachet filled with rose petals, cinnamon, and love-drawing charms to carry with you.
• Embedding in Jewelry – Enchant a piece of jewelry with attraction energy and wear it to enhance romantic appeal.
• Love Candles – Use pink or red candles and tie love charms to them for love spells.
• Bath Ritual with Love Charms – Place rose quartz or heart charms in bathwater to charge yourself with loving energy.
• Knot Magick with Charms – Tie a ribbon around a love-attracting charm while focusing on your desire.
Prosperity & Success Magick:
• Prosperity Jar – Fill a jar with green aventurine, bay leaves, wealth charms and coins to attract wealth.
• Keep Money-Drawing Charms in Wallet – Carry a citrine crystal, Chinese coin, or prosperity sigil inside your wallet.
• Tie Wealth Symbols to Candles – Use green or gold candles and adorn them with symbols for financial success.
• Charm Your Work Desk – Place a charged prosperity charm on your workspace to attract career success.
• Bury a Charm for Long-Term Growth – Plant a coin or lucky charm in the soil with a new plant to manifest sustained wealth.
Healing & Well-being Magick:
• Crystal Healing Charms – Wear or carry stones like amethyst, jade, or lapis lazuli for mental and physical healing.
• Drink Infused Herbal Water – Charge a charm with healing energy and place it beside a cup of herbal tea.
• Create a Healing Amulet – Anoint a small token with essential oils like lavender or rosemary and carry it for health.
• Under-Pillow Charms for Rest – Place a dream charm or amethyst under your pillow to promote restful sleep.
Divination & Psychic Enhancement:
• Pendulum Work – Use a small charm as a pendulum for dowsing and spiritual guidance.
• Charms with Tarot Cards – Keep psychic-enhancing charms with your tarot deck for clearer readings.
• Crystal Ball or Scrying Mirror with Charms – Keep a pentagram, labradorite, or a third-eye charm near scrying tools.
• Create an Intuition Talisman – Carry a charm or rune (such as Algiz or Ansuz) to strengthen intuition.
• Anointing the Third Eye – Use a charm to draw anointing oil onto the third eye for spiritual awareness.
Spirit Communication & Ancestral Work:
• Ancestral Altar Offerings – Place a charm representing your ancestors on your altar to honor and connect with them.
• Use Spirit Keys – Enchant an old key as a tool to unlock communication with spirits.
• Bone or Shell Divination – Keep a charm or marked bones for spirit-based divination.
• Spirit Sigils - Use name sigils or symbols of spirits to connect with them.
• Carve Names on Candles – Inscribe an ancestor’s name on a candle along with a symbolic charm for guidance.
• Use a Spirit Bottle – Fill a small bottle with herbs, salt, and charms to aid in contacting spirits.
Shadow Work & Personal Growth:
• Shadow Work Charm Pouch – Keep black tourmaline or obsidian, a moon, a skull, etc. charm in it for deep introspection.
• Mirror Work – Put a shadow work charm on a mirror and use it for self-reflection rituals.
• Create a Personal Power Amulet – Enchant an item with affirmations for self-empowerment.
Warding & Banishing Negativity:
• Black Salt & Charm Mix – Combine black salt with a protective charm and sprinkle it around your home.
• Smoke Cleansing with Charms – Pass a protective charm through incense smoke to empower it.
• Candle Banishing Ritual – Carve a banishing sigil onto a black candle and burn it while focusing on removing negativity.
• Mirror Magick for Reflection & Deflection – Charge a small mirror charm to send negativity back to its source.
Elemental Magick Uses:
• Earth Charms – Bury a stone charm in soil to manifest long-term goals.
• Air Charms – Hang charms in trees or use feathers to enhance communication and wisdom.
• Fire Charms – Burn symbols in fire to release intentions or perform fire scrying.
• Water Charms – Place charms in a bowl of water under the moonlight for cleansing and intuition.
Dream Magick & Astral Travel:
• Dream Charm Under Pillow – Use an amethyst, moonstone, or dreamcatcher to encourage prophetic dreams.
• Charm on Bed Frame – Put a charm under your bed or mattress to enhance dream recall and astral travel.
• Silver Cord Charm – Carry or wear a silver cord for protection during astral projection.
• Anointing with Mugwort Oil – Use mugwort-infused oil on a charm to enhance dream visions.
If a charm loses its energy, becomes damaged, or is no longer needed:
• Bury It – Returns energy to the earth.
• Burn It – Safely burn wooden or biodegradable charms.
• Release It into Water – If eco-friendly (e.g., shells, stones).
• Gift It – Pass it to someone who may need its magic.
Magick charms are versatile, powerful tools that enhance spells, offer protection, and bring luck. Whether worn, carried, or placed in a sacred space, they infuse your life with magick while keeping your intentions aligned.
Anything can be an altar — and you don’t necessarily need one to communicate with the Gods. If you choose to have one, it should come from love and affection for the deity, from a genuine desire to honor them.
You can use pictures, statues, or simply items that represent the deity. It’s usually placed in a quiet spot in your home, somewhere that makes you feel calm and safe.
Before you expand: long text post!
I think it's interesting that the first line of advice stressed and unhappy practitioners often receive is 'stop practicing! take a break,' because besides a breather this doesn't actually do anything. When a person is done with that break they're still going to have the same stressful, unfulfilling practice they did before.
Stop practicing is useful advice for someone who is about to deep-fry their brain in uncontrolled Witch Fire. It's useful advice for someone who experiences unexplainable catastrophe every time they engage in magic.
I'm not sure it's useful advice for people who want to practice and are actively seeking help figuring out how.
So here are some ideas. Feel free to add your own.
Scrape over-engineered ritual. Examine ritual formats. Are you spending a majority of your practice time engaging in elaborate ritual? Where can that be paired down?
Swap ritual for enchantments. If ritual performs an action (laying a compass), can you substitute for that ritual action by making enchanted objects that take less time to activate (enchanted compass altar cloth)?
Minimize ingredients. If you regularly perform spells that require lengthy enchantment of ingredients, can you use fewer ingredients to achieve the same results? If you're using more than 3 correspondences for any spell, is this because you are wise in your own ways, or because you just feel that more is merrier?
Mash rituals together. Do you have a string of rituals, even small ones, that you perform one after the other? Is it possible to reorganize these so they're all done at once, in the same ritual? For example, setting out an offering to the gods, a different offering for the ancestors, another for helper spirits, etc. Can you combine these all into one single offering?
Check for over-tending. Is it possible that you're repeating magical acts, like feeding wards and cleansing, more often than you need to? Did you arrive at this schedule through trial and error, or did you just guess this is how often you should do them?
Check for your own levelup: spell maintenance. If it's been a while since you re-evaluated your ritual/offering/maintenance schedule, your increase in skills may mean you need to do these tasks less often to achieve the same result.
Check for your own levelup: techniques and routines. Some techniques, like carefully entering trance, grounding, and centering, are like training wheels that wear ruts into our paths of magic. As we improve in skill, old rituals and techniques that have been carefully couched in these helpful devices may become ingrained in us so that we can perform them in almost any state of mind, much faster and easier than we could before. Experiment with any technique you've been doing for a while and see if you still need to perform time-consuming meditative or focusing techniques before you can perform the skill.
Be reasonable with your own goals. I find most 'laywitches' give themselves daily and weekly schedules that would put actual cloistered monks to shame. Did your spirits tell you they expect daily offerings, or did you decide on that an run with it? Where are you overcompensating and overexerting in your path when nobody, including yourself, asked you to?
Much of the advice of the prior section applies. Also,
Just work less. Are you putting in 100% effort when 20% or 30% would do? Are you treating every act of magic like a performance review that will control the outcome of your magical career? I'm not being sarcastic; an actual solution to your path being too much work is to just put in less effort. If you've never tried this you may be shocked at how effective magic can be when you're only doing what needs to be done.
Find simpler, more reasonable stuff. Find new techniques, and spell and ritual formats that are paired down to fit the amount of effort that's reasonable to exert for any given magical act. If you can't work with correspondences without a lengthy act of activation, find a way to cast simple spells that doesn't rely on correspondences.
Limit research and prep. Ask yourself how much research you reasonably need to get started on any given project. Remember that a huge amount of a witch's education is experiential; you will probably never know enough until you've already done it three or four times.
Be goal-oriented; prioritize actions. Ask yourself if you've set arbitrary workloads before you can get started with anything, such as forcing yourself to write artistic grimoire pages before you're allowed to perform a ritual you're interested in.
Learn skills to help prioritize actions. If your practice is consumed by acts of upkeep such as cleansing and empowering objects, focus on learning energy sensing so you can reasonably determine whether or not an object actually needs to be cleansed or empowered.
Administrate your own practice - what can go on the back burner? Make a list of all your active ongoing projects and maintenance, including upkeep of energy batteries, spells that require maintenance, and situations you want to change and are casting spells on. Prioritize them; see which ones you can set aside.
Restructure your projects to minimize maintenance. Consolidate spells and projects where possible. For example, if you have multiple protection spells for many people that require upkeep, condense them all onto a protection altar so you can feed and tend to them all at once.
Work in batch and bulk. See where you can do batch work to lighten your load. You can bulk enchant candles and incense, instead of enchanting incense every time you do a ritual. You can enchant oils, waters, and incense to feed your spells, taking time out of upkeep.
Levelup your charging and maintenance skills. Learn energy work to attach energy tethers to batteries and other important projects so they're able to drink from the wellspring you attach them to, and stay charged.
Scrape routines that don't serve you. Examine any daily routines. Are you doing them because they're helping you, or because you feel like you're supposed to be doing something every day? See if you can replace more intensive daily routines with something less tiring, like a prayer to your path itself.
You have a right to privacy. Cocooning is valid. It's fine to take steps to limit who can see and potentially judge your practice. You can keep things to yourself until you're ready.
Tend to your emotional wellness. Self-therapy, in any form you feel comfortable with, can help mitigate the inner eye of judgement.
Reduce your beliefs to palatable doses. Believing in magic for only the duration of your work is perfectly fine. You don't have to 'believe-believe' 24/7. If you're not ready to integrate the belief of magic and spirits into your baseline worldview, don't - you can agree to buy in to those beliefs only while you practice techniques and cast spells, and then put them away the rest of the time.
Scrape stuff you really can't get past. Ask yourself what about your practice feels silly. Are there trappings - like altars, ritual movements, and speaking aloud - that you don't like? Change them. Is the idea that religious faith itself is a bit cringe? Self-therapy (or you know, the regular kind) may be assistive.
Ask for help modifying your process.Is there something very specific about a ritual or technique that you just can't get past, but you don't know how to change it? Research and see what other substitute rituals are available. Ask others and see if they can help you brainstorm.
Embrace the silliness. It's not going anywhere. Believing in your practice and holding it dear and sacred is not the same as being ✨super serious gravitas✨ all the time. There are lots of things about witchcraft, and the acts of the witch, that are silly and make you realize you're doing something ridiculous. I came out here at 2 am after it's been raining to climb down a slippery riverbed to get a branch of a tree that I think is talking to me?? Because some medieval guy said Tuesday is the planet Mars and I think trees talk to me?! Ridiculous. Yet I still love it dearly in a sacred place in my heart. It can be silly and glorious at the same time.
Cast a wider net. See if you're barking up the wrong tree. Traditional Witchcraft, folk magic, lodge magic, chaos magic, eclectic neopaganism... these things are not interchangeable. If you've never explored different traditions, why not give it a go? You might find another path that feels a lot more natural to you. A lot of people fall into a certain path just because they don't know what else they could be doing!
What are you doing to bring yourself fulfillment? Why did you get into witchcraft? Make a list of your top 5 reasons (if you have that many). Which techniques, spells, and rituals are you regularly performing are designed to deliver these desires to you? If one of your goals of practicing witchcraft is to 'feel connected,' how often are you performing acts where the only goal is to make you feel connected?
Grow your path deliberately in the direction of your needs. What do you wish you had in your life right now? Is it the feeling of being loved? Inner peace? Feeling like nature is alive and watching you? Look for what techniques and rituals in your practice will bring these things to you. If there are none, find or develop them.
Ask for help and share your feelings. If you work with gods and spirits, do you regularly tell them how you feel about your practice and ask them for help finding fulfillment?
Find contentment in the process. It's vital to find joy in the process. If you have regular routines or upkeep you need to do, how can you modify it so that process in and of itself is satisfying to you? Try considering the visceral element of witchcraft: the words, scents, sounds, moods, and thoughts that you want to experience in your present moment. Witchcraft is experiential: a great deal of the experience you create in the tidepools of routine is under your control.
Contemplate the larger purpose. Some witches do have magical chores and responsibilities they can't or shouldn't shirk. If this is true of you, and you can't modify those routines, try refocusing on why you're doing them and the importance they hold in your path. See if you can find balance elsewhere in your practice that feels rejuvenating; sort of a 'work-play' balance of your own craft.
Set short-term goals you can celebrate. Are you undertaking a lot of 'workout routines' that are designed to basically make you magically buff, or get good at a particular skill, but you're doing them with no endgoal? Try creating short-term goals that excite your sense of wonder or accomplishment. Like, practicing tarot until you can read the Celtic Cross, or practicing energy work until you can make a four-element layered energy shield. Build goalposts for yourself, both in the short and long-term, and celebrate your successes.
Scrape routines you're not doing for any good reason. Are your regular practices things you're doing because they fill you with mystery and wonder, or because you're just pretty sure that's the kind of thing witches do? If you're bored or unfulfilled by a particular routine, consider stopping it altogether, especially if you can't think of any short-term goals that it's helping you work towards. Think about the reasons you got into witchcraft: what practices would help you fulfill those reasons, while also feeling good to practice?
Seek out a likeminded community. A good working group of friends can be invaluable. My close group of witch friends, whom I've been hanging out with for years, started as a Tumblr post asking if anyone wanted to make a small server to study witchcraft. Reach out and see who's out there to study with, talk to, and practice with. It can be loads of fun to do short-term study and practice challenges with friends, and a great way to get feedback and support.
Evaluate your spiritual relationships. Although it can be painful and challenging, sometimes we enter into our paths working with gods and spirits that after some time, we need to move on from. Is it possible your path has become stagnant because you don't want to keep working with a god or spirit that your path has been built around? It may be time to see how you can move on.
Of course, YMMV :)
'Taking a break' doesn't mean stop being a witch, stop believing in magic, or stop 100% of your practice. It can also mean putting a lot of projects on the back burner, switching to bare-minimum (or below minimum) maintenance, and squashing regular routines.
I'm talking specifically about taking a break in the interest of your own practice - not the conditions under which someone is ""allowed"" to stop practicing witchcraft.
Take a break to rest and let your seeds germinate. 'Fallow periods,' when you have no desire or motivation to practice witchcraft, and when it seems like there's nothing for you to do, are normal. Some witches experience this cyclically, perhaps during certain seasons or when predictable life conditions are met. There's no need to force yourself to practice when it's just not flowing. The snow on your mountaintops needs to melt to replenish your waterways, bestie. There's nothing wrong with you, the sun just isn't out yet.
When you're hitting yourself with a hammer. When something in your practice is triggering or harming you, and stopping will have no consequences, then stopping your practice for a while is probably a good idea. Use the downtime to seek healing or reformat your practice.
To open your life up for necessary work. Not every witch can out-path every problem. Consider taking a break when the problem is something you will have time and energy to work on if not for your regular magical practice.
When you're about to deep-fry your brain with Witch Fire. Consider taking a break when the problem with your practice is that you are practicing too often - such as fatigue due to excessive spellwork, divinatory obsession, trouble staying out of the spirit world (compulsive astral travel), or focus on spirits/magic/the spirit worlds are starting to erode your home, school, or work life.
To let the ripples settle. When you've done so much magic or ritual work that your life is a boat on a stormy sea, and you just need to batten down the hatches for a while and let things settle.
just a reminder that being a pagan doesn't mean you can call other religions evil and inherently the source of all problems
intolerance to people who just believe something else is still wrong
Please note that if you are using a hard bound notebook or journal, adding in additional pages will bulk up your book, like so: (these are the exact same journals, btw)
- Envelopes. Let’s say you’re doing a section on Tarot in your Grimoire, and you want to include a few Tarot spreads, but you don’t want to waste two or three pages. Glue an envelope onto one of your pages to make a “pocket” where you can store little cards or papers with the tarot spreads written on them.
- Pockets. Similar to the envelope idea. If you have a page, or section for example, on herbal teas, you can make a pocket out of a piece of paper to keep your current favorite tea recipes in.
- Dividers, Cover Pages and Ribbons. If you’re like me and you like to have “sections” in your grimoire, you can easily make dividers by gluing a sheet of paper in your book (to make it heavier to make the sections stand out more). You can go further by turning your divider into a cover page for that section. And if you don’t like the idea doing that, you can always glue a ribbon, or a string, to the spine of your book to act as a bookmark.
- Double pages. I always had a problem with “wasting” pages in my grimoire. For example, my page on consecrating and charging. These two concepts are very similar to me, and I didn’t want two page stating the same thing. So, what I did was write out all my information on charging on a separate sheet of paper, then glued the top of that page into my grimoire. This way I could flip up the page on charging (as if it were on a clipboard) and have my page on consecrating underneath.
- Extended pages. Similar to the one above. In my Crystal section of my Grimoire, I decided to write out a chart that let me search for crystals by intention. So I drew my chart on a long sheet of paper, then folded it over (side to side) so that it fit comfortably in my book, then I just glued one side down into the book.
- Brochures. In my Elements section, I had a ton of information I wanted to write down, but I didn’t want each element to have more than two pages. So I used a piece of computer paper and folded it into a brochure (or into thirds) and glued it into the book so that the flaps would open and give me double the space to write.
- Clear Tape. There are many times where i finished a page in my grimoire only to find out there was a section that I left out. A simply way to fix this was with clear tape. I would write my forgotten bit of into on a separate piece of paper and then use clear tape to tape one side of the paper to my page. This allows me to flip the paper back and forth without covering up anything that I had written.
Other Resources on Grimoire Organization:
- Witch Tip by @pumpkin-bean - Grimoire Index by @triplevirgo - Witchy-Woman’s Grimoire Organization by @witchy-woman - Altar in a Journal by @thesubtlewitch
I hope this helps everyone with their Grimoire organizing needs! If anyone knows of any other awesome organizing tips, feel free to share!
P.S. Check out my Grimoire Masterpost for more tips on making a grimoire!
~L
did u see them btw...