PREACH !!
just putting it out there that "radqueer" and "transID" shit is disgusting and is not valid. I made the mistake of diving down a couple rabbit holes based on rumors about the "transabled" (faker) community as a disabled person myself, and all the shit I found made me want to rip my eyeballs out. If you identify as or support transID labels or radqueer culture, you're deplorable and I don't like you. Not only do you harm real communities by faking illnesses, appropriating cultures, and harming safe spaces, you also make excuses for LITERAL P*DOPHILES TO FEEL WELCOME. They are not welcome. They will never be welcome. That's all.
Supporting (anti-c) paraphiles is the first step in dismantling the radqueer community btw. Being hostile will only further their belief that no one outside their tight-knit community will ever accept them. Showing acceptance and support towards paraphiles will very much decrease the chance of kids getting hurt or groomed.
"let's not be ableist!", "every mental illness should be respected" and "using slurs, especially ones that based on illnesses is wrong!" people after they call every abusive and evil person they met "narcissist", "psychopath" and "sociopath":đđ
I kinda wanna hear your thoughts on the extreme overlabeling of the RQ community
(Prefacing this by clarifying that by over-labeling I donât mean having a lot of labels, i mean having a label for every single little thing)
Just gonna put it bluntly: itâs not healthy. Wanting, for example, blue eyes or to be an electrician is a normal thing. Itâs normal for people to want things. You arenât âtranseyecolorâ or âtransjobâ, youâre just a person who wants that thing. A child wanting a toy from a store isnât âtransitemâ, theyâre a child who wants a toy.
Labeling every single thing you do with a flag and considering it âradqueerâ is just not healthy. I get it, most people that do this are kids, and kids are still finding their identity and who they are as a person. But trust me, putting a flag to everything you do and everything you want is not a good thing! Making yourself think that everything you do and want and think is a product of being âradqueerâ will only fuck with your brain and severely fuck up your worldview.
Want is what drives us as people. People have wanted things since the beginning of time. When someone is sick, they want to get better. They donât need a flag for âtransitioning to get betterâ. You donât need fancy flags and symbols for everything you want or feel, you just need to be you.
YOUR SO FUCKING BASED FOR MAKING FUN OF RADQUEERS. LET ME JOIN
OMG!!! thankk u its cause i normally dont know how to shut thr fuck up during my bpd episodes, or as my therapist puts it im âtransparentâ with my words đđ
Hello! Over time Iâve learned what radqueer means, but what exactly does radinclus mean? I used to think they were the same thing but that doesnât seem to be the case so I want to know the definitions and how they differ ^^ /nm /nf
Radinclus is about supporting all lgbtq+/mogai identities that are harmless and in good-faith (like xenogenders, neopronouns, mspec lesbians/gays, etc). Radqueers have tried to steal the definition and apply it to things that are very harmful/not good faith (like transracial, transautistic, transnazi, etc), where the logic of "accept all good-faith identities" doesn't work because the identities have been proven to be harmful and most aren't good-faith.
Radinclus is about harmless lgbtq+ identities, while radqueer is about harmful non-lgbtq+ identities (most of which originated on 4chan or from other troll/bad faith uses), if that makes sense
People with psychotic disorders are neurodivergent too.
People with personality disorders are neurodivergent too.
People with substance abuse disorders are neurodivergent too.
People with tic disorders are neurodivergent too.
People with bipolar disorder are neurodivergent too.
People with dissociative disorders are neurodivergent too.
Neurodivergence isnât just ADHD, autism, anxiety, and depression. (Plus those last two also get left out sometimes!) Neurodivergence is anything that affects your brain.
âNeurodivergent people hate loud noisesâ is actually just as valid as a statement as âneurodivergent people have delusions,â âneurodivergent people have tics,â or even âneurodivergent people have low empathy.â
"Anti-radqueers are the real cult" is very similar to "antifa are the real fascists". Anti-radqueers are not an organized group, it's just an opinion, like anti-racist or anti-ableist. Sure, there is an "anti-radqueer community" on Tumblr, but we aren't as organized or strict as the radqueer community is (hence why a lot of us have completely different discourse opinions outside of being anti-radqueer, meanwhile most radqueers have the exact same discourse opinions with only a few tiny differences).
Anti-radqueers are not a cult. Don't let radqueers steal yet another term to co-opt and shift the meaning of, especially when it's been proven time and time again that radqueers are in fact an extremely traumatizing cult. Calling anti-radqueers a cult is a badly done attempt to escape blame and consequences, and is directly copying off of and appropriating former radqueer's trauma.
Radqueers are a cult, not anti-radqueers. If you are a former radqueer, your trauma is real and is not because of "a few bad people". You deserve support, recovery, and healing. You are allowed to feel angry, upset, depressed, anxious, or traumatized after what you went through. Radqueers can deny that it happened, but can never take away the truth that it did.