Latest Posts by ph1a-r - Page 3

hey guyzz!!!! im gonna make an alterhuman picrew for yall to use,, what do you guys wanna see me add?? lmk!!!! :3c

thisll prolly take a while,, possibly a couple months from how many things there are to add, but please lmk what you want added, even if you think it mightve been already said!!! i wanna make sure i dont miss anything :3

(reblogs appreciated!!! itll help me get more input :D!!!)

I started having I don't know, tics? Earlier. And, looking back I've had them for a while, just not as bad as today. I started spasming, twitching, aggressively throwing my head back and forth. I've been having them on and off for like 4, almost 5 hours. When one is happening I feel like I can't control my own body and I can't breathe. I also feel like I'm faking because it's my body and how could I not be able to control it. I don't know what to do, no one I know knows what to do. I'm tired and freaking out, so if anyone has any ideas on what I can do or even words of comfort that would be nice, but if not that's alright

2 transgender children have been MURDERED this month and yall are worried about??? labels?? Queer children are being killed, DO SOMETHING!!

I love staying up on facetime and sleeping on facetime. Like no I can't lay next to you in bed in person yet but I can lay with you on call. I've done this with A twice now and everytime i fucking wake up feeling like a Disney princess. This is your sign to sleep on facetime with someone who you want to

Right, considering the current state of corporate politics on this site, and that it seems that only those affected seem to be actively speaking on the matter, it is up to I, the only fucking cishet on tumblr, to drag this out to a wider audience.

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

So me and A (boyfriend<33) actually fell out of contact for a while after school last year (we were in the same homeroom) and one of the first things I start a conversation with them in dms about is music. Not just any music. Not just music from a nonbinary artist. Nerdy fandom music from Stupendium. And one of the first songs I recommended was The Muppet Cypher because I know he loves Kermit the frog. So, now I'm declaring our song The Muppet Cypher.

Actually fuck this site for banning predestrogen.

Being trans is HARD, and the fact that even “the queerest place on the internet” is after us is a genuine fucking tragedy.

We come to places like tumblr to ESCAPE the rampant transphobia and shitty legislation right outside our doors, but OHP! Turns out we aren’t safe in here either!

Whether staff just blows this over and acts normal again or just straight up purges all of us, sincerely, fuck you Matt Mullenweg. I cast car hammer explosion.

Here’s a transition comparison for all of you. We stay silly.

Lack of acceptance isn't "protecting" anyone. Lack of acceptance isn't keeping anyone "safe" . Your children are growing up to be hateful and cruel to those who are unique. Your children are growing up to kill the differences because they're scared of what they don't understand. You're setting them up for failure. How many deaths will it take? How many innocents will be MURDERED before you understand? You will never understand the pure fear of having someone you love go to school in a homophobic place, knowing they could be another headline. You will never understand the fear of someone you love even considering beating these people to the punch. Next time you look on your tv and go to complain about "yet another queer character" think about this. Think about the kids who were murdered. Next time you want to remove books because of their "propaganda" think about the adults who were murdered. Next time you want to complain about kids using the bathroom of their actual gender think about all the innocent lives that were lost. They're not just names. They were people. They were loved. They were family. They were friends. And now they're gone.

dear nex,

your school failed you.

your peers failed you.

the hospital failed you.

authorities fail you,

adults fail you,

words fail you.

i fail you,

and i'm so sorry.

Nex Benedict deserved to live.

That's not just bullying, that's assault and murder.

Notice how the "save the children" crowd is literally nowhere to be seen?

SHOUT IT

SAY HIS NAME: Nex Benedict, another 16 YEAR OLD was murdered in Oklahoma, news channels are deadnaming and misgendering him, just like with Brianna Ghey here in the UK. But I urge you to not let your grief drive you to despair. GET ANGRY. Do not become apathetic, do not let grief numb you. Stand united as a community, lean on each other, have each others back. Reach out to any trans individuals of any age and make sure they have support in some capacity. Speak with your family, your political representatives, your school, anywhere, with anyone, that may be able to make some change, whether big or small. Everything builds, that is the power of a movement, of solidarity. If you make life a bit safer for one trans youth once, then you may have saved their life that day. And that kid might then show some other kid that there is hope, and so they live as well. And it grows.

Fly high Nex.

I know people are angry about predstrogen's ban right now- as they should be. But I really wish more people were talking about Nex Benedict's murder.

They were my age. Not even out of school. And they were murdered. Not "passed away" or "left us" murdered.

And I am so, so angry that this still happens. People will say our world is more accepting and that we don't need to fight anymore, when clearly we do! And I don't want to stop fighting until the world is a safe place for trans kids and trans elders.

So don't forget them. Their name was Nex Benedict.

ⓘ You can Bite your Friends.

I cannot fucking believe that there are people “no angel-ing” Nex Benedict because they poured water on these random girls who had been harassing them (and had been harassing them prior, despite not knowing them). If it had been their cishet kids who were being bullied, they wouldn’t have a problem if their kids poured water on someone. And now there’s psychos saying Nex deserved to get beaten for responding to being antagonized.

This always happens, a queer person isn’t a ‘perfect victim’, it’s okay for them to die. And even if they were perfect victim, it’s still somehow acceptable. This happens to every marginalized person who snaps one day due to abuse, and gets killed.

And the excuses only get more and more stupid. “Oh they were no angel, they poured water on somebody”. Yeah, after being bullied for a year straight every school day. It’s almost like every human has their limit of fucks to give and shit to take.

I hate all of you ‘no angel’ people even more than I hate people regurgitating misinformation about how Nex died, based off of what the corrupt school and the fucking bastard cops (who are allowed to lie) say. Even the cops suspect foul play. Listen to the 911 call, that’s a head injury. Dozens of people who’ve had experiences with someone getting a head injury and dying later on will tell you that.

How many more queer kids are gonna die before people give a shit? What are we supposed to do. Nex Benedict did fucking nothing wrong and they had their head bashed against the fucking floor. They just wanted to go home that day.

Kevin Stitt is a fucking murderer.

Chaya Raichik is a fucking murderer.

Ryan Walters is a fucking murderer.

Margaret Coates is a fucking murderer.

How did Tumblr know I'm getting back into Courage

DONT FORGET YOUR DAILY CLICK TO HELP PALESTINE

୨୧ • Osdd 1a flag, Osdd 1b flag

Alternative flags for osdd 1a and 1b! Simply because I do not like the original ones.

The light purple on black stripe represent the dissociation. The other colors represent the different layers or ways to experience the disorder, along with the alters.

PT. Osdd 1a flag, Osdd 1b flag. Alternative flags for osdd 1a and 1b! Simply because I do not like the original ones. The light purple on black stripe represent the dissociation. The other colors represent the different layers or ways to experience the disorder, along with the alters. END OF PT.

look what i saw at my public library!! makes me insanely happy, lol!!! HAPPY AROMANTIC SPECTRUM AWARENESS WEEK!!!

this one middle-aged guy saw me take a picture of this, so he paused and looked as well!! guys, it made me happy that more people are gonna walk by the shelf and pick up a book to read and become more aware of our existence, lol!!

YOU ARE GORGEOUS

YOU ARE WORTHY OF PLATONIC AND/OR ROMANTIC LOVE

YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT ELSE YOU'RE WORTHY OF??

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THAT'S RIGHT.

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I'll send a prayer to Hades as an apology in advance, but otherwise I 100% can't wait.

It's gonna be such a funny mess when Donald Trump dies of a stroke on April 1st, 2024.

Naturally everybody will think it's fake because of the date only to lose their minds (both positively and negatively based on their opinion of trump) when realizing it's real

There will be massive celebrations in the streets and on social media and lots of predictable "don't speak ill of the dead" discourse about those celebrations

Weird evangelicals will pull some weird number trick talking about how Jesus was conceived on April 1st and that makes Trump a sort of messiah and people will make fun of that

The Republicans (after they're done with the faux-sadness and faux-outrage) will stomp over each other to be his successor but none of them will succeed. They'll tear each other apart and have no single nominee for the November elections.

There will be discourse about if Biden and the living former presidents should go to his funeral (they won't, he was a traitor insurrectionist)

The Ukraine-Russia War immediately goes in favor of Ukraine as morale in the Kremlin is reduced. China similarly backs off from its threats on Taiwan.

Ten thousand new memes are made, some sticking around for years to come.

Not a month later a bunch of unofficial biographies of Trump hit the bookshelves, many with new details about just how awful he was.

Imagine

STOP posting SEXUAL THINGS with THE ASEXUAL TAG

look, I'm very sex favorable. I even engage in the devils tango as an asexual. however, I get nauseous seeing so many naked bodies, and they are plastered all over the asexual tag. seriously. I get that people are just tossing every lgbt tag on their sexy posts for traction but maybe leave off the one literally about not feeling sexual attraction.

Just a thought. :)

The only fucks we give

I think it is so funny how (please forgive me if im mistaken) the asexual ring is worn on the middle finger on the right hand and the aromantic ring is worn on the middle finger on the left hand because we can just

Never knew the Merlin community was so strong before downloading this app. I'm so here for it.

bbc merlin + text posts

If you don't think cis asexual people, cis aromantic people or cis aroace people are valid you can unfollow me right now.

Y’all I never knew the aroace community was this big before installing tumblr 😭😭🫶🫶

while its true that aromanticism is separate from asexuality, we should remember that we are each others closest allies. dont let anyone separate us, the way terfs did to trans people and cis homosexuals. we are different, but we have a common goal; freedom to live as we do

A list of rules when interacting with an aroace person, by an aroace person:

- Do not romantic our platonic. We will not hesitate to smash a rock into your skull.

- Do not piss us off. We're all attached by invisible walkie-talkies. It's like roaches--if there's one, there's definitely another one nearby.

- Do not say things like 'when you're married' or 'when you meet that special person'. Trust me, coming to terms with an aroace identity in a romance-centered world is not a fun, quirky choice.

- Do not assume that we don't like seeing romance/sex in the media. I'm aroace and one of my favourite genres is romance.

- WE ARE LGBTQIA+. Doesn't matter if we're cis, heterosexual but aromantic or heteroromantic but asexual or any other combination of all the various shades of aspec, WE COUNT AS QUEER PEOPLE.

- Do not equate being aroace or on the aspectrum to being celibate. It's not the same thing. Being aroace is not a choice.

- Being aroace does not mean we're all lonely or sad. Eating garlic bread is scientifically shown to boost your serotonin levels (don't fact check me on this)

- Living with someone or wanting to live with someone doesn't mean we want them romantically! If you have the option to establish a hideout for you and all your buddies, why wouldn't you?

This was, again, a list of rules when interacting with an aroace person, shown to reduce chances of dying by burnt breadsticks and pasta by 100%!