8th House - Blog Posts

Synastry Astro Notes *my experiences with people of different synastry placements*

🌞 Sun in the first house: admiration, my last bff had this placement I also have this placement with others I look up to

A guy that would bother me a lot (low key bully) had his mercury conjunct my mars he also had his sun in my 8th house and he loved to get a reaction out of me because it gave him power (that's my opinion which lines up with this placement)

♨️ My old bff had the asteroid nemesis (128) in my first house and she expressed how pretty she thought I was. I had mine in her 4th house and I was jealous she had a brother who protected her since I never had a man protect me before (or anyone really, in a passionate way). But also after we stopped being friends her mom blocked me and her brother stopped talking to me 😭. Her mom even blocked my mom!

🧜🏾‍♀️ Venus in the 12th house is weird I have my venus in my old bff's 12th house and she liked me but I didn't like her I have it with my guy friend and we both liked each other but I rejected him because I wasn't sure I liked him (I ended up really liking him 🥲). And with people who have their venus in my 12th house I noticed I liked them but they didn't like me or at least not that I know of. But I feel it can show a close connection, guess it depends on other placements.

🌝 With moon in the 12th house it's giving therapist. I be bearing my soul to these people and they do the same 😭. But I noticed it's more about the moon person like the moon person will share their problems with the house person constantly and it gets emotionally tiring for the house person.

Mars conjunct Saturn usually shows the more mature or older person the mars being the young one ofc.

🌞♀️ You'd think sun conjunct venus is good but I'm not sure I had it with the bff and that guy who bullied me so ??

☪️ My old bff had her moon in my 8th house and this was one of my best friendships and we were really close. But also I'm pretty sure she liked me and was mad I liked her brother and that's probably why she dropped me 😭. And she literally cried because I got mad at her and that's why her mom hated me after the friendship. She also had prominent pisces and venus in the 1st house which explains some of this. Like she really thought she was the victim 😶.

☕ There's this guy I was in an insta gc with. I liked him and we started talking I guess as friends but we'd flirt (his venus in my 3rd house). And he rejected me harshly and kinda led me on (omg I just realized his chiron was also in my 3rd house). We obviously stopped talking. And sometime after he told my other guy friend (who was in the gc) that he missed me and asked for my Instagram. My friend told me though that he said I look like a goat but he'd f*** me (if drunk) like wtf? He preceded to message me and talk to me I acted like I didn't know what he said too 🤣🤐. I found out his mars and venus sqaured my asc and he's a libra rising with his moon in the first house and it all started to make sense 🥲.

It's been 2 times now where my mars ended up in a guy's 12th house and I've ended up obsessed they're cancer risings and my mars is in cancer. I heard somewhere your mars (for women or people attracted to men) sign shows what kind of men you're attracted to so this makes sense.

Mini Astrology observations

*please note that these are my personal observations, not yet coming from a professional opinion*

❃ Most Virgo placements tend to be into music/art/digital art and will definitely have something related to stomach issues or issues regarding their health. Hence we see most people with these usually have a focus on their health (subject to change with the aspects involved in the chart).

❃ saturn/Capricorn placements have been through many lessons during their lifetime, especially their childhood. Most of them have had to grow early and take charge of their life, these lessons sometimes being harsh that it affects their mental health as well. They also work hard and learn to stand on their own feet early on but they struggle through a lot. Delays could've happened in their career but when they reached a quotient, they truly do shine when they have learned from the trauma and lessons.

❃ People with Venus in 12th/8th house, do sometimes attract partners who might have toxic traits around them and could be very insecure of their success or happiness. You will always have a strong intuition about this, but you might also excuse your persons/partner's behavior when you are w.r.t. underdeveloped.

---> As 12H is the house of hidden enemies, along with idealized standards of these individual, they truly have to learn to assert boundaries and learn to balance out a connection/relationship. As well as you might also have a strong intuition, knowing it might not end well or have a "feeling" That the connection might not work but would stick because of this love with the idealised side of the person. For ---> 8H - you don't love easily, but when you fall, you fall hard. Your relationship would bring out alot of triggers for you in general, alot of the suppressed underdevelopment might start coming out through your relationships/connections. It's always taken to extremes, either very happy or very chaotic. Many lessons, could be that your person might also be insecure of your financial stability.

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With grace & love ✨

ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS PT.10

THESE NOTES ARE ONLY A STUDY OF MINE AND HAS/HAS NOT BEEN PROVEN YET, SO IF IT DOES NOT RESONATE WITH YOU, FORGIVE ME AS IT WAS ONLY A STUDY/OBSERVATION OF MINE.

I DO NOT PLAGIARIZE, COPY OR REWORD ANY OF MY FELLOW ASTROLOGY OBSERVERS POSTS AND I DEMAND THE SAME IN RETURN.

This also has an 18+ touch here and there so you can skip if you're uncomfy with such themes or YOU ARE A KID.

•I've observed that those who are born natural actors have strong Moon influence in their chart. This is because moon is responsible for our emotions and our ability to handle our emotions. Our ability to express what's deep within our mind and heart [expression does not just have to be verbal (mercury)].

So a native with strong Moon influence on the ascendant (esp. harsh aspects), or even venus and even having moon aspect asteroids like Actor or Talent can make us understand that they are born actors. These people become amazing and unique artists in any area of expression and emotions.

Even people with Moon in the 5th house, 10th house and 11th house become naturally born actors. These people are naturally very talented in anything expressive and informal (informal, in the sense, what allows them to expand and not be restricted, things that involve thinking outside the box and not having to curb down their talents).

I've noticed so many all rounders have this placement. I have also observed that people having moon aspect chiron or in water signs can make the person use their hurt emotions to better perform in acting (esp. when they have moon in the 10th house). Ex: Alia Bhatt, Tom Hanks, Vikrant Massey.

Even natives having moon in a water/air signs can become the most talented actor if they also have 5th house placements. Ex: Kamal Haasan, Rajnikant.

Examples:

From left to right:

1st row: Zendaya, Vikrant Massey, Kamal Haasan

2nd row: Lady Gaga, Tom Hanks, Alia Bhatt

• Saturn in the 5th house natives find it very hard to open up their heart easily. A lot of trust issues when it comes to love. These people do not date many people in their life but whenever they do, it goes on for a while like many months to even a year. Even a couple of years but finding a committed partner is not easy for them. When I say dating, I mean offline dating.

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• Saturn CONTRACTS while Jupiter EXPANDS. Whenever Saturn sits will result in contraction of the area often pushing the individual to try and expand that area or work on that area so it grows but all efforts result in slow progress along with little positive results. Wherever Jupiter sits is where there is massive expansion in your life and that area continues to grow more and more as you keep working on that area.

Ex: Saturn in 11th house = subjects related to friend circle, elder sibling, social settings, expressing yourself, future plans, etc.

Jupiter in 9th house = subjects related to knowledge, philosophy, various cultures and traditions, religions, foreign languages, travelling, pilgrimages, teachers, etc.

• How do you know if a Scorpio Mars really loves you? (Romantically)

Even if they're frustrated or angry, they'll try their level best to speak kindly with you. You are their soft spot. They can't look at you in the eye when they say hurtful stuff because at that moment they aren't feeling well and they know damn well what they're saying ain't true. They will never lash out on you..no matter how angry they are, they'll make sure not to throw that all on you.

From my observation, these people will literally say the most mean shit to anyone when they're frustrated, tired or angry. They won't mind lashing out on them or just saying them to 'fuck off-' when they are in a bad mood but they'll do the complete opposite with the person they love. They are very sensitive towards the feelings of the person they love and this can be quite a struggle for them to handle because they're so used to just saying mean shit to people without hesitation when pissed and now they don't wanna hurt the person they love aww😮‍💨 They'd rather go punch a wall than to say something extremely rude to the person they love.

[speaking from experience]

• Again, like I mentioned in my other post, A lot of people aren't aware that Moon is also a very sexually driven planet. Where Moon sits and which sign Moon sits in can indicate how sexual you are deep down, like what turns you on, what makes you want to have the baby of a person, what makes you wanna rip that person's shirt off, etc.

Example:

✓Moon in the 10th and 11th house or in Capricorn and Aquarius natives are freaky as hell deep down when it comes to sex. They want the type of sex that involves handcuffs, blindfolds, vibrators, tying up the hands, etc. They honestly want the type of sex that breaks the bed lol.

✓Water Mars and Mars in water houses natives want to get dominated by their partner. They want to be put on their knees or told what to do in the bedroom by their partner. They also like positions that involve lot of rotation and touching the partners most delicate parts like the nipples, etc.

✓ In astrology the flavours of food and types of food are represented by different planets, being:

Sweets are ruled by Venus.

Alcohol and drugs are ruled by neptune.

Salt is ruled by Saturn. Also dark coloured foods and bitter food.

Yellow or orange coloured Foods are ruled by Sun. Even foods with rich flavour and strong taste.

Red colour vegetables or food and spicy food are ruled by Mars. Also food that induce heat in the body.

Fats are ruled by Jupiter.

Milk, bland foods and dairy products are ruled by Moon.

Green and leafy vegetables are ruled by Mercury.

Consuming a lot of that food item can indicate that planet (ruling the food) being strong in the chart.

Few food examples for each planet:

Moon: Cucumber, watermelon, milk, coconut, papaya, water, algae, seafood (crab, mussels, oysters, clams…), cabbage, soups, noodles, eggs.

Sun: Citrus (orange, lemon), cinnamon, egg yolks, sunflower oil & seeds, ginger, saffron, grapes, peaches.

Mercury: Cabbage, Broccoli, Spinach, green Capsicum, nuts (cashew, walnuts, pistachio), lemongrass, dill, lavender, berries, fiber-rich foods (bananas, plums).

Venus: Honey, figs, mango, avocado, fatty food (duck grease…), greens, sugar, dates, cakes & biscuits, sweet potatoes, plantain.

Mars: red meat, spices (Chili, cayenne & sichuan pepper), tomatoes, basil, black coffee, curries, pepper, raspberries, redcurrant.

Jupiter: Fish, (peanut) butter, fried foods, seed oil, saffron, bananas, “umami” foods.

Saturn: Sesame seeds, Salt, lentils, oats, rice, pickles, kimchi, soy, root veggies (radish), durian, pickles.

• Is it just me or does every single person with water placements and 4rth,8th and 12th house placements always wonder how others go about their day without spirituality and the universal guidance...like I always wonder how can one even go about their day without chatting with the universe😅😂 but also I'm then very much happy and grateful that I was chosen among others to walk this beautiful path.

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• Cancer over the 8th house/ Cancer Mars = Masochistic people. They love sex that involves biting, hickeys and yeah, all those kinds of stuff. My friend has this and she bites anyone she really likes and loves...yes, she bit me😂 and no,not like the literal biting, it's a soft kind of one don't worry. My fellow Cancer Mars's and 8th housers aren't cannibals, chill😂👍

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• Where Saturn sits is the area we criticize more or get criticized and put down more than we are celebrated. Ex: Saturn in the 4rth house makes a native get put down, get a lot of empty promises and getting disappointed later and get hurt by their family, specifically the mother, rather than being appreciated for what the native has achieved and being motivated by his/her family more. This native's emotions and pain are also ridiculed or not taken seriously by their family members. Lack of emotional support and lot of criticism from the persons family.

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• Where Neptune site is where you are a little too liberal for the sake of 'the subject of the house'. Also you are a bit too open there or tend to overshared there too. Ex: Neptune in the 5th house = love, romance and fun. Neptune in the 11th house = Having friends and connection, etc.

Thankyou for Reading through this today!

Have a great day and I hope you all stay for the next one😊❤️

18+ SYNASTRY OBSERVATIONS

THESE NOTES ARE ONLY A STUDY OF MINE AND HAS/HAS NOT BEEN PROVEN YET, SO IF IT DOES NOT RESONATE WITH YOU, FORGIVE ME AS IT WAS ONLY A STUDY/OBSERVATION OF MINE.

I DO NOT PLAGIARIZE, COPY OR REWORD ANY OF MY FELLOW ASTROLOGY OBSERVERS POSTS AND I DEMAND THE SAME IN RETURN.

18+!!!! Kids, go play in the park...shoo shoo

• A lot of people aren't aware that even Moon is a very sexually driven planet. Like it's most likely the reason why you want to get in someone's pants, have someone's babies, just wanna ride someone so bad (lol), etc.

This is why the sexual energy when Mars or Pluto aspects (mostly conjunct) Moon is off the charts in synastry. The sexual tension is extremely undeniable.

When there is a square or opposition it becomes very much an uncomfortable sexual tension at the beginning and for a while but when you begin to feel comfortable around eachother, trust me, it gets HOT🔥 It's like being in a Sauna when you're around eachother..the eye contact, the slight touch, the sweaty hands, the figitting, it's just so noticable.

I feel like with the square and opposition it's like you both are wondering why you feel such heat around eachother, like you just wanna touch eachother for the hell of it...and you wonder why you don't feel such a way with anyone else you talk to. It can be frustrating to be around eachother and not touch eachother, even if it's in the slightest way.

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• In synastry, Stone asteroid (5841) aspecting Prevert asteroid (18624) makes the Stone person think a lot about the Prevert persons moans or how they would moan, the stone person can even most likely masturbate to the thought of the Prevert person having sex with them. The Prevert person too wants to hear the stone person moan..like they wanna see the stone person moan as the Prevert person pleasures them🔥😮‍💨.

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• Bruhhhhh... Stone asteroid in the 12th house and the house person literally moaning and whimpering to the fantasy of the Stone person moaning as they thrust themselves against the house person plzzzz....confession, I had this with someone once..👍🫣

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• Sirene asteroid (1009) in the 3rd house makes the house person find the Sirene person's voice sexy as hellll...like a literal turn on🔥 The Sirene person knows what to say and do with their hands to make the house person wet, turned on and begging for more... y'all need to chill😩❤️‍🔥

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• Destinn (6583) asteroid conjunct Pluto or Mars can mean it's destined that both the individuals will have sexual intercourse for sure. This is an undeniable indicator...but be safe, who you have it with people cuz a lot of people be really bad these days🫶💖

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• Venus in the 6th house or 7th house makes the Venus person find the house person's ass really attractive, doesn't matter if it's fat or flat, they be admiring that ass from anywhere at this point😭👍. Confession, I have this with someone and I literally love his ass, it's so cute ahh...yes,he knows😭🫣

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• Moon ⚹ or Δ (any soft aspects actually, including minor aspects) Mercury makes the Moon person very much turned on by the Mercury person's voice. They find mercury person's voice so attractive and it just makes them so wet. They want to hear the mercury person talk dirty to them, like they're completely ready for it😮‍💨

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• Pholus asteroid (5145) in the 8th house = The Pholus person blowing up the house person's dark parts of themselves. This can also indicate that the Pholus person blows up the house sexual sides of themselves often causing the house person to masturbate to the thoughts of the Pholus person.🔥🤝

The Pholus person also blows up the house person's genitals or sexual hormones and this makes the house person very wet just by a few thoughts of the Pholus person. Even a slight touch, their voice and presence will do.🤫🫡

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• Dominiona asteroid (24899) over the 1st house = The dominiona person feels like they own the house person. The dominiona person wants the house person all to themselves and the dominiona person is very possessive of the house person. Whether the ascendant person likes this or not depends purely on their other placements in their chart.

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• Whereas, Dominiona conjunct Ascendant makes the ascendant person want the dominiona person all to themselves and feels what I mentioned the above towards the dominiona person. Whether the dominiona person likes this or not depends purely on their other placements in their chart.

[The dominiona observations are not necessarily 18+ but as someone who gets turned on by dominance and loves a dominant partner, yes...this is for all those who, like me, are turned on by this too🫂🔥]

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• Mars in the 4rth house = The Mars person sees the house person as someone innocent, gentle and pure until they realise that the house person becomes a hot demon in bed lol🤫🔥😩

A song for this beautiful couple:

• Mars in the 8th house (if the duo are not enemies) = The Mars person sees the house person as someone mysterious and also sexy. The Mars person can't get enough of the sexual intercourse between him/her and the house person because the house person satisfies them at a soul level, even if the individuals aren't spiritual. Hot and steamy sex right there. The sex is sweaty and raw as hell, which is like having sex in a Sauna, even when you aren't in one...gosh, hot..just Hot💦🤒

Some songs to understand how this synastry feels on a sexual level:

Bonus For KPOP STANS❤️‍🔥:

• Jupiter in the 8th house just makes both the individuals so thirsty and hungry for eachother. It's like their sexual appetite is expanded to infinite when they're with eachother and get intimate. They both cannot get enough of the sex and this is the kind of sex that's devotional and a complete focus on eachother. Both the individuals want eachother so much to the point of madness.

They love how crazy they make eachother though, especially when there's Venus in the 8th house too. They want to merge souls through the art of intercourse and they can't get enough of eachother at all. They can never get bored of eachother because no matter how much they indulge in eachother, be it physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually, both of them feel like it ain't enough.

The song for this beautiful couple:

• Eros asteroid (433) aspecting Neptune can make both the individuals fantasize about having sex with eachother so so so muchh. It reaches a point where they can't even focus on their day to day activities cuz they suddenly zone out, just thinking about having sex with eachother. 🥵💦

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•Moon in the 8th house (even Moon conjunct Pluto) is the such a sensual placement to have with someone you have sex with. Literally. The sex is like heaven on Earth. The gentle touches while taking the clothes off (with Mars it's like ripping the clothes off lol), the heavy eye contact while having sex, the aftercare, the massaging while having sex, everything is just so soulful and sensual. The touching and teasing is so on point with this overlay and both the individuals just love the intimacy they share.. although it can be quite frustrating if both of one of them are shallow in Nature and don't want depth.

The song for this beautiful couple:

• Alinda asteroid (887) aspect Jupiter (esp. conjunct and soft aspects) expands the Jupiter person's urge to be rough with the Alinda person and kiss them so badly. This aspect creates an uncontrollable urge for the Jupiter person to kiss the Alinda person and make out with them a little roughly too.🥴❤️‍🔥

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• Venus/Mars in the 3rd house makes the Venus/Mars person hella attracted to the house person's voice, like they just wanna hear the house person speak, even if it's nonsense lol😂The Mars/Venus person also gives good head or oral to the house person. The planet person finds the house persons mouth attractive as hell and they just wanna taste them.😳🤤

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• Mercury in the 8th house overlay makes the mercury person give such good oral to the house person. This also makes the mercury person wanna finger the house person and see them moan in pleasure😮‍💨👍 The house person can find the mercury person's voice very sexy and hottt like ughh😩💦. The mercury person's voice makes the house person hella turned on and wett.

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• Mars or Venus over the 4rth house makes the planet person extremely attracted to the house persons chest..and if the house person is a woman, then their breasts🔥 but I've also noticed that when this overlay is present in synastry where the woman is the planet person and the house person is the man, the man still seems to find the woman's breast beautiful.

Also, when this overlay is present the house person would want the planet person to ride them (if man) or wanna ride them (if woman) but yes, the riding is amazing here💦

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✓Mercury overlays can show where the mercury person would love to use their mouth and hands on the house person and where they do use it:

1st house = the face, the entire head, maybe grabbing your head while your giving them head, they love kissing you on the face and lips or wanna try it badly.

2nd house = your lips, again wanting to kiss your lips a lot and can even wanna put their hands in your mouth while having sex.

3rd house = wanting to give you head or have you give them head. They could also want you to give them blowjobs and they could give you that too. They wanna kiss your fingers too and can give you hand jobs as well. They even want to hold your hands while having sex with you.

4rth house = They wanna kiss your belly. They even do *ehem* dirty stuff with your breast. If you're a guy they wanna kiss and suck your nipples too. They like squeezing your breast or have you touch theirs a lot too. They wanna ride you as well or have you ride them.

5th house = They wanna kiss your chest. They wanna ride you or have you ride them while putting their hands on your chest. They wanna see your breast or stay close to your chest while having sex. A lot of missionary with this overlay too.

6th house = They want to use their fingers in your anus...yeah..they wanna eat your ass and finger you there while having sex or Vice versa. They want to touch your butt a lot while having sex.

7th house = They want to grab your ass honestly. They wanna smack that ass while having sex. They want to use their mouth there or vice versa. A lot of anal with this overlay (even 6th house).

8th house = They want to taste your genitals. They want to give you oral or have you give them oral. They want to touch all your private parts or sacred parts of your body and vice versa.

9th house = They wanna touch your thighs so badly. They wanna have you lick their thighs or they wanna lick and kiss your thighs first before doing the deed. They want to have their hands on your thighs while you sit on their lap and ride them. (Vice versa)

10th house = They want to place their hands all over your legs. They wanna see you spread your legs wide while pleasuring you. They want to hold your legs while having sex with you. They can even like the idea of risky sex like having it in a public place where they finger you in and elevator full of people (sorry, I got that 50 shades of grey scene in my head😭).

11th house = They want to get freaky with what they do to you. They wanna use their hands and mouth on all your places like a crazy maniac ah😭👍 They like your ass for sureee and wanna see you cum multiple times as they give you a handjob, oral, head, you name it. They wanna do it all with you😮‍💨🔥 like wanting to tie your hands up, put you on your knees, blindfold you or have you do all of this to them.

12th house = They wanna again use their hands all over your body, from head to toe. They wanna kiss your feet though, no, not like a foot kink, they want to massage your feet out of love. They wanna have you slide your feet across their body or they wanna slide their feet across your body (Not the hands but I've observed this). They wanna use their hands on your main part (the kitty or the dick) and wanna even pleasure you in all the ways possible. They wanna actually submit to you.

The asteroids mentioned above:

5841,18624,1009,6583,5145,24899,433,887

An 18+ Composite observations is also on its way so stay tuned for more and thankyou for reading through this!❤️‍🔥😊 Lots of love and gratitude💖

Have a good day and I hope to see you in my next post!🤝

12th House Stellium Themes

(My observations as someone who has this stellium)

Solitude

feeling alienated from others or getting easily exhausted by people's energy, especially in group settings

you can have the ability to read people extremely easily. You can be in the presence of someone you've just met and already feel that something is off

only feeling like you can be yourself when alone

more prone to cut people off, distance, or ghost

enjoy spending time on creative projects, journalling, interests alone

Disconnection

constantly feeling like there's a fog separating you from the world around you and other people

either experiencing chronic dissociation or having episodes of it

feeling inhuman or unreal, like you were dropped onto Earth with no incentive

feeling like you have one foot in another realm at all times

Living more in your mind than in real life or constantly using escapism as a coping mechanism (music, movies, substances, limerence, daydreaming**, social media, etc.)

Projection

having others tell you who you are despite them only knowing surface level information

constantly feeling misunderstood or like no one knows the true you

putting on a mask in front of others, usually unintentionally

being a mirror to other people, they can see themselves and react accordingly

people becoming obsessed with you, either hating you or seeing you as their ideal (especially with Venus/Lilith)

people can describe you as being mysterious, quiet, or like you have your head in the clouds

this can be applicable to 8th house placements/stelliums

Paranormal

seeing shadow figures or experiencing unexplainable things, especially in childhood

being extremely sensitive to your environment and having the ability to pick up on things that others don't notice

prophetic or really surreal/vivid dreams

being really in tune with your subconscious mind while also feeling blocked off from it

again, also applies to 8th house (there's a lot of crossover lol)

I'll be doing a part 2 to this because there's more that I want to touch on

Personal associations/interpretations of the dark/mystical houses (4th, 6th, 8th, 12th)

4th house

twisted tree roots, cultural practices, heirlooms, photo albums, inherited features, traditions, the mother, past lives, generational trauma, picture books, garden beds, childhood homes, ancestor altars, hand written recipe books, hearth, squeaky wooden floorboards, genealogy archives, caves, oak trees, baby wrap carriers, emotional security, cultural heritage, building foundations, photo albums, genetics, laundry lines, swing sets, property, mines, crops, sanctuaries, the chest and heart, home steads, fields, farms, root cellars, harvests, pots on stoves, brooms, backyards, agriculture, vines on trellises, handmade blankets, grandparents house, laundry baskets, attachment styles, singing lullabies, history, deep emotions, instincts, the unconscious, summer, waxing moon, vase of flowers, bath time, picking berries, celebrating holidays, chicken coops, older sisters, family gatherings, stone paths, forest walks, ancient structures/buildings, ancestral languages, cupboards, staying in

6th house

vitamins and supplements, morning routines, pharmacies, tasks and lists, doctors offices, health food stores, stomach medicine, hygiene practices, journals and planners, schedules, herbal teas, personal rituals, emergency kits, dog walks, lymphatic drainage, caregiving, donating blood, examinations and checkups, meditation, colour coordination, sticky notes, gastrointestinal problems, folded laundry, labels on everything, retirement homes, hand washing, braided hair, herb gardens, filing cabinets, face masks, kombucha, detailed diagrams, volunteer work, medicine cabinets, cleaning supplies, shelves, acts of service, skin care, organic linen, gauze and stitches, stress-induced illnesses, essential oil/herb baths, house plants, instructions, repetition, holistic medicine, giving advice, yoga studios, "gut feeling," bone broth

8th house

altars, divination, near death experiences, candle wax, feeling crushed by a heavy weight, grave dirt, red/dim lighting, funerals, double income, control, the underworld, cheques, insurance, heirlooms, ghost sightings, power imbalances, crime documentaries, ouroboros, bank accounts, grief and loss, shadow work, the womb, manipulation, scrying mirrors, Russian nesting dolls, keys, mortuaries, tests from the universe, pendulums, crime scene tape, the phoenix, projections, credit scores, animal bones on a forest floor, blood stained sheets, metaphysical shops, spiritual attacks, deep emotions, snakes, dead flowers, late autumn, wedding veils, envelopes, full moon, muddy boots, shadows at the corners of your vision, scarab beetles, inner processing, experiencing crisis, inherited possessions, natural disasters, sexual trauma, psychological studies, ancestral connections, cracked dolls, veil between realms, mental illnesses, deep connections, intimacy, reincarnation, torture devices, keys, whirlpools, the sound of sirens, unconscious fears, intense first impressions, pushing limits, feeling bound, scratches on walls, ten of swords

12th house

abandoned places, liminal spaces, long winters, shadowy figures, reoccurring dreams, repeated patterns, fog-filled forests, self analysation, inner worlds, cave systems, unfinished basements, hallucinations, solitary confinement, empty parking garages, spiral staircases, substance abuse, trapped in purgatory, hidden beneath the surface, maladaptive daydreaming, hospital hallways, confines of society, waning moon, moths, wandering aimlessly, disconnection from the world, psych wards, healing others, tired eyes or dark circles, chronic mental illness, suppression, addictions, hiding places, overnight shifts, unexplainable experiences, past life karma, exhaustion, cobwebs, others projections, catacombs, bird cages, premonitions in dreams, prescription bottles, self destructive patterns, late night walks, misty lakes, the feeling of walking out of the movie theater at night, identity crises, blurred faces, empty public transport, astral projection, comas, diary entries, dissociative episodes, shape shifting, generational trauma, observing people, mirrors, padded rooms, the afterlife, chain link fences, paradoxes, feeling misunderstood, repression or memory loss, hikikomori, the freeze response, disappearance, waiting rooms

8th house synastry is not for the weak i swear 😭

Might I ask how long you’ve been in the process of awakening?

2-3 years

Scorpio/8th House, 12th House, Capricorn/Saturnian : Law of Reversed Effort

I can't stress enough how important for the natives with placements mentioned to learn about this

The placements listed are the placements who deal with their timing the most and a lot of times, their life relies on fate. It doesn't mean the natives just need to lay back in their life, no. It's that the natives should have a really less expectations over things and people while still doing the adequate efforts without putting stress in that. Like I have mentioned before, the mentality of "I have to get this or else my life would be bad" won't serve the natives at all. The natives actually should go through life at their own pace, trying the best they could, and remove expectations. Only by that the natives will be calm throughout life and less likely to encounter massive detours

Saturnian/Capricorn and Scorpio/8th house placements usually are more likely to encounter massive detours when they are already in chaotic moment of their life. They are likely to attract a lot more complicated problems if they don't manage their emotions and thinking right. But when they try to calm themselves down and believe in themselves that they can handle things, that's when they realize the problem is not even a problem. Saturn deals so much with self-control. Eventually the mastery of self control is what makes Saturnian natives go much further in life. Similar with Scorpio/8th house. When they acknowledge their power and not victimize themselves, that's when they realize they can go through anything peacefully and they don't need to suffer all the time

The natives really should try to do law of reversed effort

Hey love your blog❤️

Can you please answer what do you think about mars in 8th house overlay in synastry

Thanks))

Thank youuuu! From my personal experience, it's a very intense overlay that creates a sexual/intimate bond between the two people, but the house person feels more, there's an incredible chemistry and sexual compatibility, but be careful with extreme sexualization from mars person side

< How you act when you're in love >

5H/7H house ruler in scorpio/8H house/8°/20° degrees: can, at its worst, make someone very obsessive, possessive, explosive, jealous and even an stalker when they're in love with someone ☠️ help. at its best, can make someone very passionate, intense, powerful, protective and sensual when in love, the type to go to the moon and back just for their lover. it's giving very ride or die vibes. The same definition can apply to venus aspecting pluto. Songs:

Him and I - G-eazy & Halsey

Woo - Rihanna

The whole Reputation album - Taylor Swift

The Weeknd songs

Paparazzi - Lady Gaga

Collide - Justine Skye

Middle of The Night - Elley Duhé

Babydoll - Ari Abdul

Animals - Maroon 5

Crazy in Love - Beyoncé

The whole Ultraviolence album - Lana Del Rey

Unforgettable - French Montana

Heaven - Julia Michaels

The whole Badlands album - Halsey

Killbill - SZA

L.E.S - Donald Glover

5H/7H house ruler in cancer/4H house/4°/16°/28° degrees:: can, at its worst, make someone extremely manipulative, moody, vengeful and irrational when in love with someone. at its best, can make someone very caring, loving, protective, nostalgic and nurturing when in love, they really like to spoil their partner emotionally. The same definition can apply to venus aspecting moon. Songs:

The Heart Wants What It Wants - Selena Gomez

Highschool Sweethearts - Melanie Martinez

Reminder - The Weeknd

Paparazzi - Lady Gaga

Part Of Me - Katy Perry

Te Amo - Rihanna

Alejandro - Lady Gaga

Sweather Weather - Arctic Monkeys

I wanna Be Yours - Arctic Monkeys

Cinnamon Girl - Lana Del Rey

deja vu - Olivia Rodrigo

Outside - Calvin Harris

Earned It - The Weeknd

The whole Born To Die album - Lana Del Rey (including the paradise songs 😘)

Ocean Eyes - Billie Eilish

5H/7H house ruler in pisces/12H house/12°/24° degrees: can, at its worst, make someone delusional, blind, influencial, escapist, and moody when in love. at its best, can make someone sensitive, empathetic, dreamy, empathetic, creative, profound, feeling unexplainable feelings, and VERY romantic when in love, they're probably the types to write poetry and imagine a fairytale with their loved one. The same definition can apply to venus aspecting neptune. Songs:

Love you like a love song - Selena Gomez

Love Story - Taylor Swift

Bad Romance - Lady Gaga (a song deditaced for their terrible taste in men, specially, but in women too 💞)

Training Wheels - Melanie Martinez

I'm yours - Isabel LaRosa

Renegade - Aaryah Shaah

The bridge of What a Life - Jhene Aiko

Why'd You Only Call Me Whem You're High - Arctic Monkeys

#icanteven - The NBHD

Happiness Is A Butterfly - Lana Del Rey

I Love You - 2ne1

Loonatic - LOONA

America - XYLØ

High Enough - K.Flay

The whole soundtrack of Euphoria - Labyrnth

Psyechedelic Addict - Anuka

As someone with these 3 placements (scorpio/pisces/4th/8th houses), I really liked doing this post since it's something very personal to me! 💕 Also, one thing I notice is that all these placements usually listen to a lot of music, more than the usual, when in love.

Mini tutorial in case you don't know how to see your rulers. Look at the signs in your 5th and 7th houses, then look at where the planets who rule these signs are in your natal. For ex: I have a 5th house in sagittarius, so I need to look at my jupiter, sagittarius ruler, who is in scorpio in the 4th house. For this, I indicate for you to look at the modern rulership, but in case you don't identify with the characteristics, look at the traditional ruler.