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struggling to figure out what to do when there's no gender neutral bathroom? Do what I do in these circumstances:
be a little sad about it
say "good thing gender is fake"
pick
/lh, hj
Y'all, so today I woke up feeling man and wore masc. clothes for school. As I got on the bus, one of my friends, who btw I haven't came out to yet (as genderfluid), complimented my outfit by saying, " U look very masculine/manly 🥰". That genuinely made my heart melt. Then my sister had to ruin it by telling me I'm not but I can look over that.
(mainly masc nonbinary) • Alternative Masculinities by Sapphic Lasers • Dead Name by Sapphic Lasers • Burn Masculinity by The Spook School • Binary by The Spook School • Favourite Son by Gully Boys • Gender Binary by Ryan Cassata
As an AMAB nonbinary I confirm this
I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.