Oriented Aroace - Blog Posts

"love is love" until it doesn't include sex

"love is love" until it lives in separate beds

"love is love" until it is queer platonic

"love is love" until it does not comply with compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity

love IS love, for aspecs, for sex repulsed folk and for platonic relationships

"love is love" apply to more than same-sex relationships in a world where romantic and sexual relationships are considered more valuable

Remember to advocate for Asexuals and Aromantics this pride. Because we are also here, and we are also queer

made a meme because what do you mean i’m questioning my sexuality again even tho i’ve been secure in my identity for the past 10 years 😭

My experience with being oriented aroace is basically just not sexual or romantic attraction but a secret third thing but idk what the secret third thing is and tbh I don't care what it is, I just know that Women

Aroace who's extremely confused by their tertiary attraction call that a disoriented aroace

reblog to scare the aphobes

Hello! :D

I don’t know if this is a thing people do on this website because I’m new and still have no idea how Tumblr works but here we go-

Hi! My name is Luella and I’m a (kind of?) self-taught traditional and digital artist! One of my friends has been pestering me for a long time to start my own art blog on Tumblr so I finally decided to go for it! So I dug up this sketch in my journal and finished it digitally in order to introduce myself!

So this is a drawing of my persona Swan! I draw a lot so you’ll probably see a ton of stuff with her in it lmao. She uses she/her pronouns and is an unnamed species that I’ve been working on!

There are two versions of the drawing. In one, Swan is holding the aroace flag and agender flag because that is my gender and sexuality! I also identify with librafeminine, oriented aroace and omnisexual which is the second version. I just find it easier to use agender and aroace because they’re more commonly known :)

So that’s my little introduction! I can’t wait to show more of my art with everyone! 💛

To end, some fun facts about me!

-I’m gluten and dairy intolerant 🫠

-I use she/her pronouns 💕

-My favorite color is green 🌱

-I just finished watching “Generation Loss” because my friend convinced me to

-I wish I had a jellyfish haircut 🪼

Might be an omni or sapphic oriented aroace

This however is an ordeal/question for future Bagel to deal with :D

I reblog!

reblog to scare the aphobes

Things I shoulda known

I really should’ve known I was non-binary because I didn’t understand the binary at all, like I do, but it just was like a sock that never fit. When I did discover the term it made me a bit sad, but I had this huge wave of relief and was happy that I could finally be myself. All gender bathrooms are the best, no questions asked. Now onto my sexuality...I really shoulda known I was ace..I mean dude, I literally couldn’t say the word “sex” for years. I have a list of alternatives...quite literally. It’s funny cause one of my friends knew before I did. Now onto my romanticism...I never understood romance..but I was fully convinced that I was a pan/panro...I was really wrong. I hadn’t had well, any crushes (faked ‘em to a T). I found out I was demiplatonic and realized I have squishes on occasion (literally my besties...I love them so SO much...I wanna hang and talk philosophy with both of ‘em), and that I might not be as introverted as I thought. Imma get real existential real quick, but I really am grateful that in the little time that I’ve had on this planet, that I will never experience falling in love or sexual attraction because I’ll have a whole ‘nother experience than somebody else. I’ll change in different ways. My experience may not be common, but I’m grateful that I get to have it. 

Idk if this is just me, but I just CAN’T seem to find Mcu Peter Parker romantically/sexually attractive??????? (not really the others either, but I haven’t seen the other 5 Spidey movies so I can’t exactly say) Like, how do y’all do it?????? He’s technically 4 years older than me but we’ll be the same age when he would/will come back from the snap. {is sad in ‘05 child}

I just have the BIGGEST squish on him???????? Like it infuriates me that he’s fictional because we would have gotten along so well if he wasn’t????????? Just me??????? Oki

Anyone else listen to idea of her by cavetown and related to it but you weren’t sure why and have now realised that you’re aspec or just me?

Am I Human?

Am I human?

I ask myself this question,

thoughts rushing around my head

What's wrong with me?

Why am I like this?

Why is my heart empty?

Why does my own community hate me?

Why do they exclude me?

I feel as if I am not human,

given that everyone else is focused on romance and sex

I wish I knew why,

what it feels to love someone like that

Maybe then I would feel human

Why am I pushed aside?

Ain't I as Queer as everyone else?

Am I even human to you?

I do not purely feel contempt inside,

Why do you think that?

I just wish I was like all of you,

maybe then I would be seen

Maybe then,

just maybe,

I'd feel human once again

But why do I have to change,

for you to include me

Ain't I human as well?

Ain't I as Queer as everyone else?