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Responding / Reacting to the 3D

hi lovelies!

today i want to talk about reacting to the 3D.

The first thing to say is that if you reacted to an unfavourable 3D it’s fine, as long as you pick yourself up and re-embody the REAL you, the version of yourself who has their desires. That being said, if you are constantly reacting to an unfavourable 3D, it’s causing you to spiral repeatedly e.t.c, you need to do some work on your self concept and really become internally the version of self who has your desires. Take it back to square 1 - the 3D does not matter.

So how do i react to unfavourable 3D?

i don’t. Well i wish i could say that but i am still working on it. However i have two main reactions:

1. Your assumptions are the only meaning anything has.

i remind myself that the only meaning anything has is the meaning I attach to it. As the creator, the perceiver, source - however you wish to identify yourself - you are the one who defines what anything means. Let me give an example

SP is not responding for multiple days - a reaction to this unfavourable 3D might be assuming they don’t like me and/or they don’t want to talk to me.

but as the creator YOU DECIDE it’s meaning. For this i usually go into the second part of my reaction

2. Who am i?

if i know that SP and i are, in imagination, in a committed relationship, then I know that this action means nothing. I know that my imagination is inevitable, that what i assume as true is reflected by the 3D.

therefore, who am i?

SP’s partner

I know that i am loved, i know SP loves me. SO i am not going to assume anything silly like that they don’t like me or don’t want to talk to me. I simply am not fazed by it at all.

If you like, you can also assign your own deeper explanation to it, like that SP is busy trying to plan a date for you guys etc. i personally don’t like to do this because i don’t want to too heavily attach myself to the 3D.

Is every interaction with the 3D a ‘reaction’?

No. One thing i see newer manifesters worry about is whether engaging in regular life counts as reacting.

for example if the 3D isn’t yet reflecting back the loving relationship and SP reaches out for a science project you are partnered in. You do not have to tell them you love them and act like you’re in a relationship - the 3D doesn’t matter. Responding ‘normally’ is fine, just enjoy talking to them and do not take anything to heart, because your assumptions are inevitable. Internally is where the change happens, you don’t need to do anything in the 3D.

When i talk about a reaction, i mean either internally or in the 3D properly reacting to unfavourable circumstances. whether it is attaching negative meaning to something that happened, or complaining about SP to friends. You KNOW the real story, so do not saturate your mind with unnecessary meanings and justifications for your manifestation being inevitable.

i don’t care if your SP says they hate you and never want to speak to you again, block you on everything or hell even hire a bodyguard to keep you away from them.

I had a person come crawling back repeatedly after saying they never want to speak to me again etc. Nami (namisw0rld on tiktok) also has amazing success stories like this that show that circumstances don’t matter (she tried to square up with his grandma, like bro).

The point is, to me, a reaction in this context is only when you allow yourself to slip back into the old version of yourself and accept any unfavourable behaviour as true or final. A reaction can be internal or external.

Sometimes, when things are unfavourable - especially at the start of your manifesting journey, negative things in the 3D can make everything feel pointless. But when you accept that you and your internal is all that matters, the 3D will no longer affect you, pinky promise.