Questioning - Blog Posts

The love that this post is getting makes me so happy and proud! I love all of you and I’m so happy that we are spreading the positivity!😊

I feel like we can all agree that labels can either bring people comfort or make people feel like they are being put into boxes. So on that note, I wish you all a good day, and I hope you find comfort with yourselves whether or not you identify with a label.

I feel like we can all agree that labels can either bring people comfort or make people feel like they are being put into boxes. So on that note, I wish you all a good day, and I hope you find comfort with yourselves whether or not you identify with a label.

Genderfluid Shapeshifting?????

Hi!! So I think that I'm Genderfluid (I've been going with this label for like 5+ months, and have been using fluid gender labels for a long time before tthattt) And recently I started to realize that my face.. Changes...

So uh.. Most people know how boy's faces and girl's faces look different, right? My face can be one or the other, both at the same time, neither, or a combination. And it's not just my bias from already knowing my gender, since one of my friends had brought it up to me before (Boy day, and she had forced me to do a little photoshoot thing for her, and she had braided my hair, but the braid wasn't visible with how i had my head turned and stuff, and she had told me, "Move your braid! You look like a little boy!!" And um.. Boy day so in the end she did have forcefully move my hair, but wtvv) and then just recently I asked a different friend what gender my face looked like on an Agender day. He said Agender.

Is this just a thing that happens?? Other fluid gender people or flux gender people, please tell me if you've noticed stuff like this??? Does your face just.. Change to match ur Gender??? Please helpp =(

YEAHHHHHH HAPPY PRIDE YA'LL!!!!

(currently reading 2 queer graphic novels at once, in the first one, the protag is openly lesbian with a gf and her friend is in a gay relationship, and in the second one there is a gnc protag and a pan or polysexual protag, with an absolutely AMAZING WONDERFUL GREAT transmasc commander/general who binds and is trying to find hormones)

So i'm having a great time.

Happy Pride Month!!!

fun facts about sharks

Something connected in my mind, correct me if i'm wrong. How did doffy know about the whole water and land destruction thing going on. If it was a celestial dragon secret, then why did his father want them to leave a place that may very well be their family's survival. Just curious 🤔

edit: I gave them too much intelligence, now that I think about it some more. Bless their heart, nevertheless 😪

currently questioning my identity rn

guys, I think I might be AroAce…I’m not sure, but I need time to think about it. Cause AroAce people feel little/to no romantic or sexual attraction. Sometimes I feel like I wish I had a relationship whenever I feel lonely, like for example, whenever I watch the Robots movie and whenever I watch it, I always say that I want a relationship like Fender and Loretta. And I’ve had crushes before (on fictional characters), but now I don’t. I don’t have a desire to have sex, but depending on if I find the right person, I might. Same thing with romance. But if I go through my life without any romance or sex, then I’d be fine with it. But I would consider romance and sex if I found the right person. Maybe I’m cupioromantic, idk tbh

Advice is greatly appreciated

I wish I had a definitive and 100% accurate way of figuring out my gender so I could end this years-long questioning phase and just stop worrying about it.

And what if my euphoria comes from people saying I’m “unreal” and/or “bro you’re literally an alien” playfully in the midst of my silly moments

i may have discovered a new kintype at like 3am yall ill keep ya updated-

also i drew a silly hat cuz i was in a silly hat mood and im running on like 5 hours of sleep (im somehow energetic but its prob the music im playing)

Yeah my gender is- IT RAN OFF AGAIN GOD DAMN IT

All about me thingy

Questioning if you're AIAB is a crazy experience. The thought of my parents having potentially had me get surgery as an infant for the sake of conforming to the "binary" of AGABS, or the possibility of nobody knowing that my body is like this or what's up with it, feels so weird. It makes me question if it's all in my head, but then I look at diagrams, and think about my family history, and think: "It does NOT fucking look right", and have a mini existential crisis for the 100th time.

Identity is complicated. Choosing labels that work for you and are useful for you is more important than perfect accuracy.

that post about the different sexualities is for real. that's why i call myself queer cuz like it feels like it changes from day to day lol.

Right! Like one day I‘m looking at a pic of Sebastian Stan and I‘m like „goddammit I‘m straight“ and then the next I‘ll see a movie with Emilia Clarke and I just know I‘m not straight anymore lmao

I think I‘ll just settle for „labels are weird, if you‘re hot, you‘re hot“

Does anyone here think Ringo deserves more RESPECT? Cause in most of the Beatles music videos, he literally does shit. John, George and Paul get to use their instruments, why can’t Ringo? I mean come on! He is forced to hold an umbrella and sit behind George with nothing to play with in “Help”. Also in Paperback Writer, he sits there still doing nothing and not getting to play his drums or even hold his drumsticks! Just in the background leaning towards a statue or sitting on ground.🥁

Please hashtag me #ringoneedsalittlemorerespect or if you like ;) leave a comment about your thoughts on one of the coolest drummers in the history of rock and roll.

anybody just hates the usual human body care needs? hell, even animal ones, like no i dont wanna eat, sleep 8 hours a day, exercise, go on walks, and then also work for minimum of 8 hours and have to find 3 hours for relaxation and also shower and brush my teeth and

i wish i could just. sprout. photosynthesize. and just grow there, chilling, no nervous system, no brain, just grow and reproduce. and die in like a year, then get composted, god I'd love to get composted...

- thinks I might be genderfluid in high school

- wears multiple sports bras at a time in an attempt to bind bc my chest bothers me so much

- gets laughed at when I tell my then boyfriend

- drops it for several years and becomes as girlie as possible

- comes out as enby at 23

- still experiencing awful gender dysphoria

- starts questioning if I’m trans

- spends hours every night explaining to myself why that can’t possibly be it and what would happen if I transitioned

- boyfriend makes jokes about how he knows I wish I had a p****

- is so incredibly dysphoric and stressed that others start to notice but there’s no one to talk to not really

I changed my pfp. Do you like it, guys? :3

This is so fricking relatable.

To anyone who isn't completely sure who they are on the inside, it's OKAY to take a step back and take some time to figure yourself out. You aren't undeserving of identity—be it gender-related or literally anything else.

If you know that it would make you feel even just a little lighter every day, then go out and do it. Don't be afraid to say it. If everyone stuffed up all of their pain inside, deciding it wasn't worth exploring, we would all be boring and bland conformers.

Be the person who chooses to be themselves within all of this pressure to be 'normal' and to take the 'easier path'. Because sometimes the easiest path for you isn't the most traveled overall.

I touched up this old art a little

I'm questioning rn and thinking of trying this. I'll come back to report on how it went.

happy men's day everyoneeeee

I think I want to be a girl.

It's all I can think about recently.

Still figuring out my gender over here. I've been doing some research and some retrospective, and I feel that Polygender/Multigender might be the best descriptor at the moment.

This feels closer to how I feel than the term Genderfluid, but nothing's set in stone at the moment.

I've been thinking a lot about my gender again recently. For context, I currently identify as non-binary, a title that I kind of just settled on since it was the easiest conclusion to jump to at the time. For a couple years I've identified as non-binary, but I used to identify a lot more with being genderfluid.

I've been so confused with my feelings about my gender lately, and I had a thought this morning. I was probably right in my original assumption of being genderfluid.

I dunno. I still gotta think about it, but it's a possibility.

Not sure if I’m greysexual or just a germaphobe.

All my friends talking about how hot that person is and I’m just like “ew they sweaty”

I’m watching a movie and a sex scene comes on and I’m like “how unhygienic icky”

My love language is physical touch but my friends better make sure they wash there hands before giving me a hug.

I’m biromantic but still figuring out my sexual orientation doesn’t help that I’m I’m ocd as hell.

eyyy chat whats good brooor

anyone else have this feeling where they like wearing clothes that hide their "feminine" figure and generally like dressing in boys clothes and also have this strange sense of discomfort with being called "she" and suddenly liking the idea of going by "he/him" and maybe "he/they" but also dont like hate being a girl, like they dont hate their breasts or hate having a vagina but also still wanna be a boy and fit the social standards of a boy

and they sorta just start seeing themselves as more masculine and like drawing and depicting themselves as having more masculine features like body hair and a less curvy figure, but as i mention, theyre not entirely sure if they dont want female anatomy, and they kinda like the idea of having no genitals at all, but still want a more masculine identity

and like, this feeling is weirdly sudden, like they dont remember feeling this shit as like a child or early teen, but it suddenly happens in say your mid teens, and they think that maybe this is just a phase and they just wanna be part of the trans community

cause if so, are you just a tomboy or are you like actually trans please answer